On the topic of virginity....
Where did virginity get such a bad rep?? When someone has sex for the first time they are said to have 'lost' their virginity! Lost?? If you've just had sex, I think you know exactly where your virginity has gone! Where did this event get such a bad connotation attached to it?
Why can't we spin it to the positive? Like, instead of 'losing you virginity', we can say 'found your ... sexuality' or something to that effect! And instead of saying 'gave it away', as in it was something so unwanted you couldn't wait to unload it on some poor schlub, we could say 'gifted it'....
Her: "So you really did it? you gave it away?"
Newly Deverginized Chicka: "Gave it away? No, honey. I gifted it! He's been good to me this month, so he deserved it.."
Much better, non? ;)
Dirrty South, we ballin' dawg!