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La Verita
I am a half kuwaiti/half american girl living in Kuwait. I am perpetually suspended in the granite hollow that fills the space between two worlds... Not quite who I am, not quite who I want to be... Cat-lover, poet, music-nut. I currently hold a PHD in both BS and Smartass. In short, I pitch my tent in the median of life..


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Wednesday, August 31, 2005
When will the stupidity end.....?



It's 9:15 am and I am confident that what I just read on the pages of msn.com is the most stupid thing I will read today. Usually, the stupidity in the world around me doesn't present itself till later in the day, so this is amusing to say the least.
The article on msn spoke about a new policy in a UK school which allows children to say the "F-word" up to five times in class to the teacher before they get 'talked' to by said teacher.... Apparently, the offended teacher must keep score of how many times the 'F-word' was said and by whom and if it goes over the max "5", then she gets to 'talk', not yell, to the student. Well, isn't that a fine how-do-you-do? What's next?? Teens can shoplift five times before they get thrown in Juvie? You can get up to five girls knocked up before you get 'talked' to by your parents?
I never thought I would get to the point where I would say "In my day.....", but here it comes. In my day, (exactly as Baz Luhrman put it.) children respected their elders. Hell, I spent all four years of high school apologizing to teachers for the tiniest offences... turning my back on the teacher when she was talking to me, cheating on an exam by reading a poem that I was supposed to have memorized, I even remember spending an entire class apologizing to the principle for wearing earrings to school! And these kids get to cuss out their teachers five times!? I think we can safely say that westerners have taken the notion of letting children express themselves a little too far. I say we bring back the days when kids got spanked instead of a 'time-out' when they were bad. Let's go back to the times when a look from their father was enough to make children shake in their HelloKitty/Superman underwear.
I say we start a 'Spank The Child' revolution. The UK could learn a thing or two about child-rearing from us Kuwaitis. Afterall, here in Kuwait, spanking (with hand or belt), twisting of ears and pinching are all still acceptable forms of negative reinforcement. Brits would migrate to Kuwait from far and wide. We could send brochures to the UK... "Move to Kuwait, Spanking is legal.", "Child Abuse, Schmild Abuse.", "If they're bad, they deserve it.", "Spank it like it's hot!".... Ok, maybe that last one isn't really applicable....
But seriously, let us, as the next generation of parents, bring back the respect and fear that all parents deserve. Let's end child spoiling/coddling. Reward them when they do good, spank'em when they do bad. Let'em know whose boss and let'em know it isn't them! Spank'em loud and spank'em often! Trust me, it's the only way to go.

Results may vary

-Layla


09:11 (3) comments
Tuesday, August 30, 2005
Random Thought for the day




If the camera adds ten pounds, does Paris Hilton even exist?? :


14:01 (2) comments
It's all about the DJ's, baby!!



Is it just me or does it sound like all of the DJ's on 99.7 have speech impediments?? They are all sufficiently bilingual enough to be able to entertain us without sounding like they're thinking and even, god-forbid, translating what they want to say before they say it. And what's with all of the pauses that punctuate every sentence?? and the enunciation... my god, the enunciation! They end each sentence as if they've just said something extraordinary and mind-boggling. There is a certain weatherman who takes forever to say that it's hot and humid. Kuwait has what is probably the most predictable weather in the entire world. The weather only really changes every five to six months, so couldn't they contact that guy on a semi-annual basis?? Seriously, I could put my ten year old cousin on the phone and she could give the weather and she would be a helluva lot more entertaining. Don't these people go through some sort of screening process before they get on the air?? and once they make it, shouldn't the listeners have a say in who gets to stay on the air?! 'cos let me tell you, if I were in charge of that place, some people would get their a**es seriously fired.
Now, don't get me wrong. I don't have a personal vendetta against 99.7. What about Marina FM?? What's that all about? At least, the superstation plays some decent music (Ex. Friday), the only thing I ever hear coming out of 88.8 are obscure latin songs that nobody knows. This isn't Marbella people!! hablo Englisho?!
So, in search of the perfect DJ, I flipped my dial to VOA. I was pleasantly surprised to find witty and (ok, I'm biased) american DJ's. There used to be this hilarious guy with a show.. Rick Dees top 40. That show was tight! If any of you out there know if this show is on and/or when it's on. Hit me with an e-mail or a comment and let me know 'cos I miss Rick!
I'm not gonna comment on the arab stations. I don't like to talk about things I don't know, so ergo... no comment.
Basically, in my opinion, the only station worth listening to is 94.7 'cos it's the station my Ipod broadcasts out of... :D

Peace out, K-Town.

-Layla


12:49 (2) comments
The Premiere


The OC premieres in five.... four .... three ... two.... one.....

I just love the lead-in to that show... it's so dramatic. As if the new season of the OC is something we should all stand up and salute or something. Will Summer finally realize that the entire show does not revolve around her and her (albeit pretty great) rack? Will Seth finally end his narcissistic ways and surrender to the fact that he will never be as cool as Ryan? Will Ryan ever stop being so cool? And what about Marissa... Will she finally rid herself of the dreaded 'Boy Drama'?!? And they say television is evil....

Well, as hard as it is to believe at this point, this blog is not about the OC. This blog is about ... well, it's about what any blog is essentially about... ME!! The way I see it, a blog is nothing more than a digital diary... only it's a diary that you don't mind sharing with bazillions of people.... So, basically what I will attempt to do is to convey (somewhat realistically as realism is what I'm reknowned for) what life is like for a half kuwaiti/half american girl in the tiny gulf nation called Kuwait. I will leave no stone unturned and no turn unstoned.... Here I will dare to say the things which are deemed too controversial for local newspapers/magazines.

However, the blog will not only be about serious, controversial issues. Hopefully, it'll also be fun, enlightening and, god-willing, even funny at times. So, hit me with any comments/opinions you have on anything you see here and I'll try my best not to ignore them! :P just kidding !

I'll be standing by...

Layla


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Monday, August 29, 2005
On Jason Mraz, In awe



Has anyone checked out Jason Mraz?? weird last name I know, but the guy's a lyrical genius. Kind of like a wittier, funnier John Mayer. Now don't get me wrong... I LOVE John Mayer and I do believe it is ok for me to love MR. A-Z as well. That's the psuedonym he goes by now apparently. Psuedonym is a strange word to type... I am queen spelling bee and I had to spell-check it.... it also makes me think of that song psue psue psuedia.... you know the one by phil collins...? But that's besides the point. What I'm trying to say is you should definately check out Jason Mrazs' stuff (legally or illegally, whatever.) Seriously, the guy is good..pensive, introspective, refreshingly original.
I've been a Mraz fan since I heard that song ' The Remedy', but listening to the songs was really the extent of my fan-dom. Today, however, I discovered a new aspect to his genius. He's a blogger!! well, I guess technically it's called a "digital journal", but it serves the same purpose. Basically, he just floats up whatever wonderful thoughts and descriptions going through his head at any particular moment. Very entertaining stuff... Anyway, don't take my word for it. I've posted a link below where you can find a sample of his entries. Check it out, it won't kill you!


http://www.jasonmraz.com/journal/index.php?idPassed=20

Smoke it like it's hot, P.I.M.P.s!!

-Layla


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Let's roll back in time to February 2005


I wrote this article to be submitted for Hala Febriar... a February festival we have here in kuwait that includes (Gasp) discount shopping and (Horror) concerts!! I tried to get it published but apparently free speech is a lost concept in Kuwait....
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"Hala Febriar" or The February Festival came a'knocking this year the way it does every year and instead of rejoicing in the month of our liberation and independence, fundamentalist would rather we sit at home in quiet contemplation. Contemplation of what? I have no idea. As if we don't spend enough of our time worrying about the decrepit state of the world we share. But no! That's not enough for these religious zealots. They want us to spend all of our time like that. What brought this attack of mine on... You ask? Well seeing as how our one (!) month of jubilation is upon us, the fundamentalist (conservatism is much too kind a word for them…) are out in droves, fangs baring, mouths foaming, writing article after article condemning our celebrations and concerts. Apparently attending a concert will send you on the fast track to hell or something. I mean, honestly, do these men really have so little to do that they feel the need to lash out against harmless fun? Don't they realize that crime levels are soaring, drug and alcohol abuse is on the rise, the public school system is a disaster and the traffic in Kuwait is a blood-thirsty monster feeding on the souls of our youths? Personally, I feel that these are much more worthy causes for the politicians of our small gulf country to focus on. Instead, they choose to ignore these issues, bury conflicts and sweep problems under the rug, all the while filling up our newspapers with religious-fodder about a few concerts.

As far as I see it, to each his own. Religion is a personal matter. It's between a person and God, not the whole society and God. If a person feels that going to a concert is 'haram', then that person will choose not to go. The operative word here is 'choose'. That's the difference between humans and all of Gods' other creations. It's that we have brains; we have the power of free-will. And in the end, everybody will be responsible and held accountable for his or her own actions. It's not for you or me or anyone to say what's 'haram' and 'halal'. That's for each person to figure out on his/her own and to act accordingly. There's a saying in Arabic which, roughly, translates to "Everybody is free to do as they please, so long as their actions do not trespass on the freedoms of others." Nobody is going to be forced to go to a party or dragged kicking and screaming into a concert. If 4000 people decide to go see Nancy Ajram over Eid then that does not trespass on my choice not to go.

Another aspect of this matter that really gets to me is the fact that these 'politicians' and so-called 'leaders' are supposed to be exerting themselves for the good of the country. The good of a country is directly attributed to the health of the economy. 'Hala Febriar' is or could be a gulf-wide phenomenon, with shopping malls, banks and consumers all pushing money into the economy. 'Hala Febriar' is also an excellent way to boost tourism, with people driving in from as far as The Emirates to participate in the festivities. More cars in the country equal more revenue for the gas companies. More foreigners in the country translate to higher revenues for the hotels. More people in the shopping centers equal more income for the companies holding the franchises. More concerts mean more revenue for the holding venues. The list of advantages goes on and on. All of these forces, when combined, work to boost the rate of economic growth in the country. And let's be honest, there's nothing to protest there. In fact, the government officials should do everything in their power to encourage these festivals as well as anything and everything that could possibly boost the touristy appeal of our small, yet blessed nation. And if its morals and societal traditions or the loss of them that worries these people so much, well then they should just cut their losses now. Scandalous pictures will continue to be distributed via wireless networks. Illicit rendezvous' will not seize to take place.
The positive revelations, however, arise in the young Kuwaiti women that continue to graduate with high ranks and move on to take power-house positions in investment and financial institutions all around the country; Young men who eventually realize that there is life beyond 'diwaniyas', chalets and Playstation; These young men who have already begun to demand more active and productive roles in the society.
Societies must be able to mold and change to suit new information. Nothing our grandparents knew in the fifties could possibly help us survive in today's society. The very best that a person can do is have faith in the way they raise their children, the way they treat their fellow man and the way they worship their god. If these foundations are set correctly, it's all smooth sailing from then on. I'm not saying there won't be 'bad seeds'; these exist simply because they have to. There is no Utopian society and mistakes will be made. The trick is to learn from them, to not repeat them. The solution, however, is not to cling to obsolete ideals and speak with religious fervor.
I have faith that Kuwait will move towards a more modernized future without sacrificing ideals. The citizens will force this change. The political and economical rebalance of the world will demand it. It's up to us, the youth of Kuwait, to show the people that everything is not black and white and that most, and I repeat most, of the citizens' fall into comforting shades of gray. Take me, for example, I don't wear a scarf on my head or refuse to converse with men; I can recite every lyric of any Aerosmith song and can even see the silver lining in the dark cloud that is Bluetooth. I am the anti-thesis of the Kuwaiti female and you know what? I'm also a damn proud Muslim.

-Layla