A booty call, otherwise known as “friends with benefits” is basically a physical relationship between so-called friends who enjoy the convenience of just ‘sex’ with no strings attached!!
Sounds terrific!! But how doable is it?? Although the point of this ‘booty call’ is to let both partners enjoy ‘getting their kicks’ while maintaining their friendship, everyone knows that the girl usually ends up getting hurt. It’s practically impossible for women (with few exceptions) not to get their feelings involved. It’s a part of their nature – they can’t help it!! Women are known for being ‘emotional’ and they tend to confuse feelings with sex. On the contrary, this concept is much more convenient for men because they already think of women as ‘sex objects’ and this easily falls under that category.
In my opinion, the only reason anyone gets into this kind of f****ed-up relationship is because the guy believes the woman is a good f***, but not girlfriend material i.e. not worth the commitment. A woman on the other hand, goes into this relationship hoping it will evolve into something later. In the end, all women want is a commitment and it has to come up one way or another!!
Once she decides she wants a ‘booty call’ and he rejects her because he’s with some other chick, she’s bound to get frustrated and feel jealousy. Thus, the ‘emotions’ are out in the open and she’ll give him an ultimatum to either make a commitment to her and leave the other chick he’s been seeing or end things between them.
There goes the’ emotions’ again and we’re back at square one!!
Only a guy could’ve come up with a concept like this. Obviously the women are the ones getting the short end of the stick!! ‘Friends with benefits’ is simply a recipe for disaster!!